"Songs about Jaim" is my attempt to jot down any noteworthy thought, activity, adventure, or interesting anecdote of my existence. Everything I write here is a "lyric" in the 22nd verse of my life. Come sing along by my side as I sail through Ithaka.

Wednesday, August 31, 2005

Cabo

"Toca la guitarra"


So far Cabo was the highlight of the summer. It was both my mom and stepdad's first time out of the US, and our very first family vacation. I flew from San Luis Obispo to Sacramento and the next day we flew to Cabo from SFO. We took a shuttle to our hotel and our driver pointed out interesting places like Sammy Hagar's house, the rock that looks like Jay Leno, Santa Maria beach where Heather is getting married, and good restaurants to check out.

Our hotel was called Villa del Palmar and was aesthetically pleasing, but the service was HORRIBLE. Everything that we were told or that we read in the hotel books were different from day to day. There were so many little kids, and the beach area was not very accomodating. My aunt Cathy and cousin Michael were staying at Club Cascadas, which was one hotel down from ours. That night we ate dinner at The Office which was this really entertaining outside restaurant right on the beach. They had dancers on stage, and brought guys up to do a dance-off for a bottle of tequilla. I had a wonderful margarita and delicious fajitas.

The next day we walked over to Cathy's to relax on the beach all day. Her hotel has cute little cabanas where waiters deliver frozen drinks and appetizers right to you. We all played in the ocean which was surprisingly rough and had a very strong undertow. Michael, Philip, Phil and I all went jetskiing for a while which was really fun going fast over the waves and driving around exploring the ocean. We had dinner at our hotel which sucked because the food wasn't that great, and it took the server forever to bring us anything. Pretty much every day we layed in the sun and in the shade in front of Cathy's hotel, switching off from the pool to the ocean. Rough life, I know. :)

There were a million vendors walking the beach every day and we'd be asked to buy hats, sunglasses, jewelery, clothes, ceramics, pretty much anything you can think of. I don't think I've said "no thanks" so many times in my life. I did buy a new cowboy hat for $7 and my mom and aunt got sarongs. No matter what the item, everything was "almost free" and started out at $15. ;) I don't know how those vendors walked up and down the beach all day because it was about 100 degrees with 100% humidity. I was sweating the second I walked outside in just a bikini. My favorite night at Cabo we went to eat at this place called Da Georgio's Ristorante. It's an italian place set high up on a cliff overlooking the ocean and all of Cabo. We got there right before sunset and took pictures. It was the most beautiful restaurant I've ever been to and the outside dining was breathtaking. The food was also incredible! I got fettucini (sp? grr I tried spelling it 5 times, I suck) with shrimp and some red wine.

We also ventured into town one evening to eat dinner at Cabo Wabo. It was really good and I got to watch my parents take a shot of tequilla! All of the girls walked around town for awhile while the guys took a taxi home. I found a really cute bracelet in a silver shop, and my aunt negotiated the price down to 50% off! Woot woot! There were little stands everywhere selling a bunch of junk, but it was really fun walking around and see what life is like in Cabo.

Another day my mom, Michael, Philip and I took a glass bottom boat ride out to the famous Arch. Our tour guide showed us different rocks that resembled things like a pigs head and scoobi doo. Of course we saw the beautiful natural arch, and some caves. We also saw "Lover's Beach" and went over to the Pacific side of the ocean. Through the bottom of the boat we could see tons of beautiful fish!!

Monday, and our last day in Cabo, the boys were
supposed to go fishing all day. They chartered a boat at 6am, and when the morning came, we were surprised with a hurricane!!! The palm trees were blowing sooo hard, and it was pouring rain with lightning and thunder!! They took a taxi to the marina to ask the guy what to do anyway, and of course no boats were going out. The waves were enormous all day long which was pretty cool to watch. All of the beaches were closed because the water came all the way up to the hotel restuarants. I didn't mind though because I got a 30 minute massage...my very first..and I was in heaven!!! I also got to eat the best breakfast burrito ever and take a nap and relax. When it cleared up, my aunt, Dorothy and I went to the mall for more shopping, and then dinner again at Club Cascadas.

I love vacations and I love my family so it was an awesome time. I can't wait to go back in June for Heather's wedding. Now, it's back to reality. I'm all moved into my new place, and my last quarter of school starts in 20 days. Summer is fading away... :(

"When autumn comes, it doesn't ask, it just walks in where it left you last. You never know when it starts until there's fog inside the glass around your summer heart"

Bridesmaid Party

"I know a girl, she puts the color inside of my world"

As you all may know, my best friend Heather is getting married next June in Cabo to Ryan Mohr (from Muir hall). She asked me to be her maid of honor, and Alissa Gordon and Heather's Sac State friend Lindsey are the other bridesmaids. A few weeks ago we planned a trip to Santa Barbara to shop for bridesmaid dresses. Heather made us a HUGE breakfast feast before we left Saturday morning. What a great host and cook! :) We headed to State St. to try searching for dresses which ended up not being as easy as we'd hoped. We went to many many stores but became exhausted and discouraged. We were looking for pinkish or orangish color which was hard to find, and the bridal store had dresses that looked like they belonged in a trashy 80's movie. We decided to head to the beach and relax a bit so we took a cute trolley to the pier and sat on the beach and chatted. And I got to see Helya with Jon and his mom walking around!! Yay! Heather and I acted like we were at Disneyland on the trolley ride back to the car because we are entertained sooo easily..hahaha! Back at the car, we all got nakey and changed into cute dresses for a nice dinner at Palazzios. We all ordered grown up drinks, and celebrated our lovely bride to be. Congrats my dear, I love you and like you say, "my heart has so much love and joy" haha muah!! Back at Heather's we baked some brownies that turned out like paper brownies but tasted like heaven, packed up some cheesecake and champagne and went to Sycamore Hot Springs. It was sooo nice and we played ten fingers and I lost. HA. I am definitely the "bad" one in the group. I'm happy to entertain. After the hotsprings we went back to Heather's house and fell asleep to the greatest movie ever, The Sweetest Thing. "Whats that? No, really...what is that? Hi! Hello!" HAHA I love that movie, I want to watch it tonight. So many great lines and now I'm rambling... Anyway, I love Heather and I'm so happy for her. I can't wait for more wedding events and fun times with the girls and my silly friend Heatherbug. You put the happy in my ness.









Tuesday, August 30, 2005

New House

My new roomie hooked up my internet in my new house while I was gone last night. YAY. How nice! Now I can be happy. My mom is coming today to help me clean up my room and take me grocery shopping! What a great day!!!

Saturday, August 27, 2005

:(


I. Hate. Moving. And I have too many clothes and shoes that I'm disgusted in myself.

I'm sad so shush.

Wednesday, August 24, 2005

Back in SLO...

...and nothing is the same.

Cabo was awesome, but its sooo nice to be back HOME. Every time I leave town, I come back loving this place more and more. Nothing else compares. However, I came back with one less roommate. Joanna moved out today. :( I started packing to move the second I got here. IT'S SO SAD. This is just the beginning of everything changing...ugh...it's going to be a rough quarter. Last quarter at Cal Poly, new house, new roomates, no Helya, GRE test, apply for jobs and figure out where I'm going to live after graduation, apply to grad schools, Grandma VERY sick, Ryan moves back to Reno FINALLY. Phew. I don't want it to start....I want summer forever... I'm sad.

Hmph. I'm tired and packing SUCKS. AND I don't want to go to work tomorrow.

Blogs of Heather's bridesmaid outing in Santa Barbara, and of course my trip to Cabo coming soon...probably after the move this weekend. Just for JV.

Wednesday, August 17, 2005

Best Friend x 2

I'm in Vacaville tonite before leaving for Cabo tomorrow morning...and my best friend Jillian who I've known since 3rd grade, came over. Apparently she just got engaged in Cabo two weeks ago!!! She asked me to be her maid of honor, so now I am maid of honor x 2..one wedding in June and one in July 2006. Weeeee going to be a busy year!! Congrats Jillian!!!

Tuesday, August 16, 2005

Miss me?


Flying home to Sacramento tomorrow, and leaving for Cabo Thursday!! I'll be without a computer for a whole week...(sniff, sniff) but honestly I don't really care because I'll be on a warm beach sipping on some pina coladas. Suckas!! Lots to blog when I get back...don't miss me too much!

Helya, happy Birthday on Sunday!!

"Too much of a good thing is wonderful"

Friday, August 12, 2005

"Your Mom!"

10 reasons why my mom is so damn great (in random order):

1) She is small, cute, and quaint.
2) She deals blackjack so that I can go to college.
3) She sends me packages in the mail with new clothes, shoes, food, money.
4) She is taking me to Cabo next week.
5) She calls me everyday to tell me she loves me.
6) She goes on Instant Messenger to say hi because she knows how much of a dork I am.
7) She talks about music with me, and loves all the same songs I do.
8) She makes killer margaritas.
9) She is good at decorating and cooking.
10) She would drive 5 hours just to pick me up if she had to...and she has before!

So, call your mom and tell her you love her. I'm gonna.

P.S. My brother is dating a mom. Hahahahaha. YAY?

Monday, August 08, 2005

San Diego - The Novel

The girls only/Rachel's bday/visit Tylia/road trip began on Friday morning at 10am. Michelle drove Helya, Sejal, and me and we headed out for San Diego! After 8 hours of traffic, heat, horrible singing, and many freeways, we finally made it to the Courtyard Marriott Downtown. We were meeting Rachel and Tylia for dinner at 7, so we rushed to Ralphs for our drinking supplies and got dressed to go out. The birthday girl arrived, and Tylia called, asking what tower we were in. Now, as you can see by the picture, there is only one building, so we realized Tylia was at the wrong Marriott! Helya and I got in the car and weaved in and out of downtown traffic and one way streets, finally seeing the other hotel. We called Tylia, telling her we were close, when she tells us that she took a petty-cab to our hotel already! So, we start driving back to 6th street, and Tylia calls again, "I'm lost! I just went to room 1108 and a man in a towel answered and invited me in!" Apparently there are three Marriotts downtown, so we went to pick up Tylia at Marriott Gaslamp, and finally made it back to our real hotel.

Picture 6 girls in one room all trying to get pretty at the same time. What a mess! But we managed, and started walking around looking for somewhere to celebrate Rachel's bday dinner. Eventually, we ended up at Asti Ristorante, a quaint, fancy Italian and seafood restaurant, that pretty much looked like the million other restaurants in the Gaslamp District. Dinner was probably the highlight of my weekend. I got a pasta with filet mignon on top, and it was INCREDIBLE. I sat there inhaling my food, with a look of pure ecstasy and joy, while everyone else laughed at me like I was insane. I was in heaven. If you want to describe to someone what an orgasm is like, have them eat what I did, and they'd totally understand. Unfortunately, dinner had to come to an end, so after stealing 100 mints, and boxing our food for the homeless, we went back to the hotel, ready to party. "Hey, anyone want some matches?....I do!"

Taking shots of vodka 10 minutes after a huge meal isn't always a good idea, but I did my best. We planned on going to the club "On Broadway" which happened to be across the street from our hotel. Tylia got us in VIP which was half off the cover. Woot woot. We walked around OB for a while, but it was pretty empty. Searching for the exit so that we could maybe get drinks elsewhere, we found 5 other rooms, all themed and with different music genres. It ended up being a really cool place, and we spent most of our time upstairs in the techno area. Helya and I watched everyone get hammered, and Rachel got a few bday shots, while Sejal, Tylia, and Michelle flirted with some men. I was so full of food and apple flavored vodka that I couldn't even imagine having a buttery nipple shot. Helya eventually took Sejal back to the hotel, and Tylia and Michelle danced and hung out with some new friends. I was not really into the scene at OB anymore (especially staying pretty sober), so Rach and I decided to walk outside and see what else was going on. There were tons of people everywhere, wandering around Gaslamp District, from bar to bar. We were walking along when one of the petty-cabbers asked if we wanted a ride. I said no, and we continued to walk. I looked behind me and the petty cab guy was still watching us, and I realized he was really quaint! So, we ran back to his cart and jumped on! He asked us where to go, and we said "we have no idea!" so he took us on a 15 minute tour of the area and we felt like we were on a rollercoaster! The adorable biker guy dropped us off at an Irish Pub, where we did NOT fit in, so we walked back to the hotel. My drunken birthday girl took off her shoes, and walked along with a huge smile, saying, "I am SO happy right now! I love San Diego!" And I love RachO.

Saturday morning came way too quickly. We had to check out at noon, but we also needed more than one car, so Tylia and I drove to Poway to pick up her car. Two hours later we were finally back downtown to pick up our lovely, patient friends who were waiting at Borders. Tylia almost died when she turned onto incoming traffic down a one-way street. Ha! That girl always keeps us on our toes.
We headed to Coronado Island for the day. It was soo beautiful with lots to see and do. We looked around the hotel, had mini-moos, and relaxed on the warm beach. The weather was perfect, and the scenery was even sweeter. As we were taking pictures, two Taiwanese guys came up to us with big smiles, holding up their cameras and said "Hi! We from Taiwan! Picture?" So one at a time, they would pose in front of us, while the other snapped a shot with a silly grin, and then switched places. We wanted a picture of this with our own cameras, so one of the guys took a picture, and then he wanted to be in it too, he even said, "no fair!", so of course we had to take two :) A little later, I was talking to Rachel and all of a sudden she's looking over at some guysand goes "Oh My!" Tylia was brave and went over to them, asking if they could take our picture. They eagerly agreed, and we all chatted for a while. They were two Texas football players named Robin and Donny-very suiting.

It was time to head back to Poway because Tylia's mom was making us dinner. We all got a tour of her beautiful house and cleaned up, and even her showers had those removable shower heads! I am excited way too easily, but I've never had one before, so it was cool, alright?? Tylia's mom made us really good pasta with chicken, a salad, and lots of yummy fruit!! It was such a good dinner, I had to restrain myself from going back for seconds. For dessert, we had homemade brownies that were AMAZING. They tasted like fudge, and pretty much made my night. I heart good food. We took shots in Tylia's room, hiding from her mom, and Helya said it was like being in high school. (People took shots in high school??)

Tylia and Michelle offered to drive us to Pacific Beach (or PB if you wanna sound cool), but first we stopped off to say hi to the Texans at some fancy apartment complex. All I could think about was having to pee. So, I did...in the planter. :) We had some drinks with the hot guys, and finally went to PB. After struggling to find parking, and a little bit of drama which we are all going to forget about, we made it to the bars. However, at Typhoon Saloon, Helya was at the front of the line, and was told she would not be served. Apparently, she was too drunk to be let inside, which was LAME, because she seemed completely fine. So, we went to Moondoggies and it was full. Then to the next bar, which was also full. We should have expected that since it was already midnight, but we were still ANGRY. PB can kiss my ass. We ended up at "Bub's" which was this dirty dive bar that smelled and was basically not fun. But, nevertheless, I had a blast all night, just wandering around being drunk. I am entertained very easily and it doesn't take much to make me happy. After Helya, Sejal, and the boys got kicked out of Bub's, we went to get mexican food. RachO and I entertained ourselves with the EZ-J sign, while Helya and Sejal went to smoke Hookah at Sinbads. It was the end of the night, which was dramatic, interesting, and a little worrysome. Remember kids: DD's rock, leaving your friends is a bad idea, EZ-J is hot, alcohol takes your money, conscience, and ability to speak in an inside voice.

Sunday morning we woke up a half hour after we were supposed to leave. Tylia's mom made french toast and we were soon on the road back to SLO. We took 6 freeways, but made it back in good time. 6 girls were all back where they started, only 57 times more exhausted. I wanted to jot down somethings to remember for future reference:
-girls can be dramatic, so just expect it.
-2 cars in san diego frustrating trying to get around and park.
-leave really early in the morning
-smile and just enjoy the time you have with your closest friends because it will all change soon.
-If you're going to go to On Broadway, make sure you dress really slutty and maybe even get a tattoo that looks like plants growing out of your ass. And never go into a bathroom stall with another girl, unless you want a bitchy security lady to take you outside and glare at you, assuming you were snorting coke in there together, even though you've never even seen coke and you just wanted to chat while you pee.

To everyone who came with me on this trip, thank you so much for making my life a little more fun :) I love you all very much, and it means a lot to be able to spend time with my favorites before everyone starts graduating and leaving. To those who couldn't make it, we missed you very much, and hopefully there will be another opportunity to have an adventure together.

Helya
I love you my wonder twin! Thank you for being sober with me on Friday night, and having the same thoughts as me. It helps knowing someone thinks the way I do. You're my forever dance partner and caretaker! Muah


Michelle First of all, thanks so much for driving and dealing with the traffic. I liked driving your car too :) Good work getting kissed by a MAN because of your juicy, luscious lips! I am so glad you got the pasta with filet mignon like I did because only you know exactly what I'm talkin bout! YUM? YES.


Rachel I hope your birthday was everything you dreamed of! Ok, ok, I know you can dream of something better like hot guys drooling over your every move, and making you say OMC! But, it was pretty darn fun, huh!? Thanks for always making me laugh, laughing at my stupid jokes, and boosting my ego by complimenting my exquisite miniatures. And Rach, your hair is gorgeous.


Sejal
I'm so glad you came along! You are hilarious and so full of life! I love it! You definitely kept us having a good time, and were so easy to get along with. You showed us all how to go all out. Thanks for teaching me about Hookah :) We need more Sejal around!

Tylia Thanks for having us at your house and giving us a tour of San Diego! (Even though you couldn't find your way around downtown if it were life and death!) You are the cutest girl ever, and I am so happy to be your friend, you always put a smile on my face. I will never forget you at OB, "Let's go dance! I just want to dance!" You crazy girl. Let's get an apartment in San Diego next year ok? No, really. I'm serious!


Blog THIS!

Thursday, August 04, 2005

I Heart Technology

New hair!! Compliments of my new phone!!

HAHA I like how you can see my work :) Yes, people, that's me working hard at EAS.
Woot Woot.


AND I love when my friends get their hair dyed and it looks all exotic and HOT!
"Change your hair, change your life"

Wednesday, August 03, 2005

Hmmm...

My ex-boyfriend of 5 years got married on Saturday. Weird. I don't know what to think, but I just hope he has a long and happy marriage, because he DOES deserve it. But it still feels funny knowing that someone who knew everything about me, and who I spent almost 23% of my life with is now married. I am glad its not to me, but who wants to find out that your first love has replaced his feelings for you because he found someone who suits him better. Who is better than me? Ha just kidding. Anyway, congrats to Adam, and congrats to me for not being married yet. Oh, and rumor has it that his mom reads my blogs. Hi Betty. ;)


And, since I just saw Maroon 5, big thanks for providing Adam with these lovely song lyrics to portray his feelings about me 2 years ago....I probably deserved it:

You drain me dry and make me wonder why I'm even here
This double vision I was seeing is finally clear

You want to stay but you know very well I want you gone

Not fit to fuckin' tread the ground that I'm walking on


...ouch! Isn't love wonderful?

I'll leave you on a happier note from my favorite Maroon 5 song:

That may be all I need
In darkness she is all I see
Come and rest your bones with me
Driving slow on Sunday morning
And I never want to leave

Fingers trace your every outline
Paint a picture with my hands
Back and forth we sway like branches in a storm
Change the weather still together when it ends

Tuesday, August 02, 2005

SJP Finally



This is what my new hair color looks like. SJP anyone? Yes, please.